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Where can I find a good real honest MAN?

LaShan says
(20100203T150025Z )

I am 31. Looking for a nice man. Could that be you? 

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  • (20100215T170141Z )

    No not me to answer your question ;-)

    I asked several men from ages 24 - 75 this question recently. Here are a few responses:
    1. You wont find the combination of good & real honest together in a man.
    2. She should stop looking.
    3. Believe it or not, you wont find him in the typical places such as Church or the club. No man is 100% honest with his woman. He could be good to her, but all men slip up now and then.
    4. Don't believe the hype, I am a good man. I think i'm pretty nice. I am mostly honest with the women I deal with. A man will always be a man. I loved many women in my days, put its the male ego that takes us off course. It had nothing to do with the women I dealt with. Its just a "male thang". She should set her standards high and let love take its course.

    I hope that helped. Gurl just let it happen naturally. Pick and choose your battles. let the little things go and you will be maore happy with yourself and him.

  • YUMMY says
    (20100213T165603Z )

    GIRL.. THE LIBRARY... FIND A NERD; HE'S PROBABLY A VIRGIN.. AND A CHRISTIAN..A HARDWORKER.. AND A GREAT GUY.. WHICH MEANS; HE'LL MORE LIKELY, WORSHIP YOU.. LIKE YOU DESERVE.. TRY IT? SMILE! IT'S ALWAYS THE OODEST.. PEOPLE, AND PLACES.. WHERE GREAT THINGS REALLY EXIST. GOOD LUCK!

  • Msladykat says
    (20100211T140908Z )

    By finding yourself and waiting... If you stop thinking A GOOD MAN, acting A GOOD MAN, feeling A GOOD MAN, looking hard for something/ A GOOD MAN to happen, maybe things would ease up AND A GOOD MAN WILL FIND YOU …


    Wendy/ MsLadyKat

  • (20100210T121643Z )

    LOL @ Flolicious and Divalicious!! I would say on one hand you could wait and like Essence said, be patient. Then again, you can try to change what's been attracting you to the wrong men. Also, don't be afraid to step outside of the box. It's a lot of good men out there, but sometimes us women overlook them for the ones we THINK we want.

    Just my two cents...good luck. O

  • Essence says
    (20100209T174950Z )

    I too am looking for a Good man. But I have to learn patience. Wait on God to bring that man to you. Because if you don't you won't be happy!!! If waiting on him to bring me a good man is all I have to do then wait it is. Jaheim makes it so easy to feel loved and to know that there are others looking for the same things he so proudly sing about. God Bless him, Stay sweet and true Jaheim.

  • (20100209T153623Z )

    JUST B PATIENT AND STOP LOOKING BCUZ THE RIGHT MAN WILL FIND U! I KNOW THIS MIGHT SOUND OLD SCHOOL BUT IT IS SOOOOO TRUE!!!!!

  • Flo says
    (20100208T185203Z )

    There aren't any!

  • (20100208T174527Z )

    In Heaven!

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